Nothing Heals a Broken Heart Like

Moved From Myspace. Original Date 5/25/07

Okay so I am blogging again. I have quite a few people on my friends list having a hard time right now with their relationships, so I have some advice for you. I am not being mean in this blog, just real!!!!

1. You real friends are the ones that listen to you. Those are the ones you can call at any time and just vent. It may be venting or crying about the same thing every time you talk, but they still won't push you away.

2. If this man can break your heart so easily and carelessly, then was it really worth it to begin with, because he probably had feelings for you, but never really loved you like you loved him.

3. Picture your life 6 months down the road, and think to yourself "Am I still going to be crying" The answer is probably not. You will have moved on and realize how crazy you were.

4. If someone can make you feel as low as you do now, is this really the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?

5. The purpose of dating is to find the person you will spend the rest of your life with. Once you or him realizes that this isn't it, it is so much better to get out sooner than later.

6. Go Shopping

7. Put all of the energy you are using mourning the relationship into something else. It is nice outside, go start a garden, go for a walk or run. Just find something to do that is productive and will keep you going.

8. Don't do things like call him, and still do whatever he wants at the drop of a hat, because you think he will start to like you again. It is not going to happen. You should, as a matter of fact, distance yourself as far away as possible.

9. Don't be friends until you realy know that you are ready for it. That does not mean a month after you broke up, because you will just fall again.

10. Don't go to places that are memorable to the relationship.

11. Take him or her off your myspace, and don't braodcast it to the world in some attempt hoping that he will see it and realize how affected you are. They really do not care, and you are just showing your weakness.

12. My last word of advice is NOTHING HEALS A BROKEN HEART LIKE A NEW MAN. Get out there meet new people. you will begin to wonder why the hell you even wasted your time....

Coming from a woman who has recently been there!