Blogging again

Sorry, it has been a while since i have been on. It has been kind of crazy at work and life. I do have great new though. I finally took down my Xmas decorations. I know it is like 2 months past Xmas, but oh well. Might as well enjoy it while I can. I also bought a plasma tv on Sunday. i picked it up today and am soo excited to hook it up. PJ is going to come to the house and set everything up for me. i would do it but i figure why if he already knows. :) i also gave Tuboson my new laptop and old one. he is in the process of transferring everything over for me, so it feels like my old one, documents and all. LOL I talked to him about his crazy ass friend Toyin, and he agreed that i need to just let Toyin go. Do it easy, but do it. All Toyin did was talk about the incident that happened on Friday and now he is worried that he let me go to soon, how could i really just move on, should he leave his wife because he doesn't think he can really lose me. i told Tubosun it was too late. I am going to call hime, go out to dinner and just lay it down straight. I feel it is my only option at this point.

So i talked to my bestest friend in the entire world yesterday, Tasha. Damn I love that woman. And it is so refreshing when we actually have a good conversation. She knew I was not happy when she left so suddenly. i talked to her about a bunch of stuff and she did the same. The girl always gives me a breath of fresh air. I mean i have a lot of close friends, but Tasha proves why she is the best. i am going to pass on the advice she shared to you...

Stop being so breakable with everyone. Start listening to yourselfand not everyone else who tells you what they think or what they think you want hear. The only person that can judge you is GOD. We are strong beautiful women and we should never let anyone take our joy. The only person that can truly take our joy is ourselves and only because we allow it to happen. You need to always do what makes you happy and even if that means that sometime you will be unhappy, it is better to be happy somedays and unhappy some others than be unhappy all of the time. We have accomplished so much and although we are not where we need to be, we are almost there. And most importantly live life from day to day because you dont have promises for tomorrow. Do what you can do now to make you happy.