Is Love Real?

I believe if everyone (men & women) would just be real with each other and have each other's back in good and bad times that everyone would be better off. We are so busy trying to change each other, get over on each other, control each other, cheat on each other, hang these over each other's head, throw things in each other's faces, bring each other down, abuse each other, curse at each other, play each other, disrespect each other that we are forgetting to love one another. Always remember why you hooked up with that person in the first place. Don't stop doing the things that attracted that person to you. Just be respectful and don't do it as much or included the other person when you do. When both of you are out and about, remember that you are representing each other out there. Don't do anything that you can't tell your mate about. If you can't tell them then it's cheating. You should be able to tell each other anything and everything even if it hurts or will hurt the other person. Love is Love. Weight can be lost. Attitudes go away. Pain stops. Don't stay with a person just for the kids. The kids will still be there where you are there or not. There's a song that goes " If your heart isn't in it then why keep me hanging on?" Relationships are not hard. People make them hard. If you can't trust them then say goodbye even if it hurts. Remember this and share this with your special someone. No games ,no lies, no B.S. Just be Real.